It’s about discovering who we are and receiving our identity in Christ. Our relationship with Jesus transforms the whole church, emphasizing the importance of individual growth. The keywords Abide, Transform, and Imitate provide a clear roadmap for living out that identity.
1. Abide: Put Off the Old, Put On the New (Eph. 4:22-24)
The concept of abiding in Christ is foundational. In these verses, we see that abiding isn’t just about staying connected to Jesus but actively engaging in a renewed mindset. This aligns with the idea of putting off the old, sinful ways (as if shedding old, worn-out clothes) and putting on the new life, full of righteousness and holiness. This daily, intentional act requires abiding in Christ—connecting deeply with Him through prayer and Scripture.
The renewal of the mind is key. As you rightly pointed out, the renewed mind only comes by spending time with Jesus, allowing the Holy Spirit to transform us. This internal transformation leads to external change, which brings us to the second step: Transformation.
2. Be Transformed: A New Way of Living (Eph. 4:25-32)
Transformation is clearly illustrated in how Paul emphasizes practical changes in behavior that reflect life in Christ. When we talk about transformation, we need to look at how we live, especially our relationships with others.
Truthfulness – The old self is marked by deceit, but the new self speaks truth. A life of truth is foundational in healthy relationships. This might be one of the most challenging areas to embrace because honesty isn’t always easy or convenient. But when we live truthfully, we build trust and align with God’s character.
Anger – The command to be angry and not sin shows that anger itself isn’t wrong, but how we handle it matters. Anger must not lead to bitterness, wrath, or sinful outbursts. This requires humility and self-control. Keeping our anger in check keeps us from giving the devil a foothold.
Stealing – Transformation includes a change in how we view work and generosity. Rather than taking from others, we are called to labor honestly and share with those in need. This is the heart of Christ, who gave generously.
Speech – Words are powerful, and Paul urges believers to speak in ways that build up rather than tear down. The way we speak—kind, tender-hearted, or forgiving—reflects the grace we’ve received from God.
The Spirit – All this transformation, as you said, is empowered by the Holy Spirit. Grieving the Spirit is a solemn warning that our lives should align with His work, not quench or hinder His transforming power.
3. Imitation: Look and Act Like Jesus (Eph. 5:1-2)
The final step in this process is Imitation. We are called to be imitators of God—not out of a desire for flattery but as an act of worship. Our ultimate example of how we should live is Jesus Christ. As beloved children of God, we are called to walk in love, just as Christ loved us. Imitating Christ means following His example of love, sacrifice, and humility. His love is sacrificial, selfless, and life-giving, and as His followers, we are called to reflect that love in our relationships with others. Living a life that imitates Christ is the natural result of abiding in Him and being transformed by His Spirit.
Your caution about following people who don’t reflect Christ’s values is crucial today. In a culture that often values fame, power, and wealth, we must be discerning about who we choose as role models. We are ultimately called to imitate Christ, and anyone who leads us closer to Him should be the one we follow. “Follow me as I follow Christ” is the heart of Christian discipleship.